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Horses Held

My 7yo: “Uuuugh, this is taking forever. When am I going to get to go to bed?

Me, brushing her hair: “Hold your horses, sweetheart, I just started.”

Her: *giggles, sticks her hands in the air, as though holding something up*

Me: “…Either you’re very strong or those are some very tiny horses.”

Her: “They’re horses the size of a car.”

Me: “My goodness, you are very strong.”

Her, matter-of-factly: “Uh-huh.”

Later…

Me: “Thank you for being so still and patient. I think you can put your horses down now.”

Her, lowering her hands: “Uuuuugh, I’m so tiiiiired, I just want to go to bed.”

Me: “Hey, why are you whining all of a sudden? You’re about to go to bed right now.”

Her: “I put my horses down, so now I don’t have any patience again.”

Me: “Ah, I see. Well, in that case, maybe you should pick them back up again.”

Her: “Okay.”

Her: *goes to bed with her hands in the air, behaving like an angel*

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The “Real World” Fallacy

The American institution of public schooling is considered one of our greatest strengths–but why?  What is the purpose of schools, and why do we force our children to attend them?  The response you’ll most often hear is that school prepares our students for the task they must all ultimately undertake of being successful, responsible adults–that’s what we usually mean by the term education.  Yet there is an odd contradiction implicit in this attitude: if the purpose of education is to prepare children for the “real world”, then why do we need schools?  It’s generally understood that the schools themselves are not the “real world”, so they must necessarily be artificial worlds: invented realities designed to shelter our children from the responsibilities of adulthood until they are “ready” for them.  It is no great secret that experiential learning is by far the most effective kind, yet the fierce irony of preparing our children for the “real world” by sequestering them from it entirely goes apparently unnoticed.  This idea of preparing our children to be adults by treating them like anything but–what I call the “real world” fallacy–is a perfect encapsulation of everything that is wrong with our current way of thinking about school, education, and children in general.
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